The Mathematics Of Affection and Kinship Love Theorem

The Mathematics of Love: Finding Destiny in an Infinite World

(By Anthonio Von Swagger | Assembled by Amos)

Dedication

To the seekers who never gave up, To the dreamers who dared to believe, To the hearts who loved beyond logic, time, and reason — This Law is for you.

The mathematical calculation for love—romantics and scientists alike have tried to quantify it in formulas, often playfully or poetically. Here are a few famous and creative takes:

1. The Love Equation (by Dr. John Gottman)

A real attempt rooted in psychology:

Gottman’s formula predicts the success of a relationship using ratios of positive to negative interactions.

Magic Ratio = 5:1For every 1 negative interaction, there should be at least 5 positive ones for a healthy relationship.

2. The Drake Equation of Love (parody)

Inspired by the Drake Equation for extraterrestrial life:

L = N × fA × fC × fM × fR

Where:

L = Likelihood of finding love

N = Number of people you meet

fA = Fraction you are attracted to

fC = Fraction who are compatible fM = Fraction who are mentally available

fR = Fraction who reciprocate

3. Mathematically Playful Love Formula

Sometimes written as:

Love = (Attraction × Compatibility) / (Resistance + Fear)

It’s symbolic, of course—but it points to how emotional openness and mutual fit are essential.

4. The Logistic Model of Love

In theoretical models:

This models love over time, approaching a limit (K) with initial acceleration then plateauing—just like the honeymoon phase.

1.0 Introduction: The Search for Love in a World of Billions

In a world of eight billion souls, the chance of finding true love may seem like chasing a star across an infinite sky. Yet, as improbable as it feels, love is not random. It obeys unseen laws, hidden within the mathematics of life: readiness, opportunity, alignment, and resistance.

The M.O.A.K Law of Love defines these forces and reveals that love is not solely about fate — it is about probability. Through conscious growth and understanding, we increase our chances of finding the one whose soul resonates with ours.

In the infinite expanse of human connection, love emerges not only as an emotional triumph but as a statistical anomaly.

Every day, over eight billion souls cross paths — some in bustling cities, some in digital corridors, some never at all. Yet among this swirling mass of existence, true romantic connection remains rare and wondrous. It defies reason, mocks predictability, and yet… it can, perhaps, be explained.

This paper embarks on an audacious journey: to quantify the likelihood of finding love in a chaotic world. Not to reduce love to mere numbers — for love is far too sacred for such diminishment — but to reveal, in mathematical elegance, the miracle it represents.

Through a synthesis of probability theory, psychology, sociology, and a touch of lyrical wonder, we introduce the M.O.A.K Law of Love: a formula built to estimate the chances of finding one's romantic counterpart among eight billion hearts.

2.0 Defining the M.O.A.K Law of Love

Probability theory, the mathematics of uncertainty, has long found application in fields ranging from finance to quantum physics. Yet love, with its ineffable mystery, seems resistant to calculation.

However, prior scholars have dared to brush the hem of this enigma.

In the 1960s, astrophysicist Frank Drake proposed the "Drake Equation" to estimate the probability of intelligent life elsewhere in the universe. His model, though imperfect, offered a framework for the unknowable.

Love demands a similar framework: one that acknowledges uncertainty, chaos, and serendipity — and yet still seeks clarity.

The M.O.A.K Law adapts principles from probability density functions, Bayesian inference, and sociological sampling to build a realistic yet hopeful estimation of romantic encounter likelihood.

The M.O.A.K Law states:

Where:

M = Magnitude of Personal Readiness

O = Opportunity Frequency (Encounters per Year)

A = Alignment Factor (Emotional, Physical, Spiritual, Timing)

K = Karmic Interference (Trauma, Fear, Past Lessons, Missed Timing)

The M.O.A.K Law of Love

(Mathematics Of Affectional Kinship)

Let:

• N = Total number of people on Earth

• A = Fraction you're attracted to

• C = Fraction that are compatible with you (values, vibe, vision)

• E = Fraction that are emotionally available

• R = Fraction that will reciprocate your feelings

• T = Fraction you’ll actually cross paths with (timing, geography, fate)

• L = Probability of finding love

  
  

Then:

L = N × A × C × E × R × T

This gives you the number of potential true loves in the world. A probabilistic universe of romantic gravity.

Example (imagine this):

• N = 8,000,000,000 (world pop)

• A = 0.05 (5% of people you might be attracted to)

• C = 0.01 (1% deeply compatible)

• E = 0.5 (half are emotionally available)

• R = 0.1 (10% would actually love you back)

• T = 0.000001 (odds of meeting them in this life)

  
  

L = 8,000,000,000 × 0.05 × 0.01 × 0.5 × 0.1 × 0.000001 = 0.002

This result suggests an average individual might have 0.002 “perfect” matches on Earth—1 in 500 chances of encountering their destined love. A miracle by probability. A tragedy by design. A poem by nature.

Discussion

The implications are ironic and hopeful. Love is both statistically improbable and emotionally inevitable. The M.O.A.K Law does not promise love; it celebrates its rarity. Each real connection is thus an improbable triumph—a rebellion against the odds.

This formula invites us to cherish love not just when it finds us, but for how beautifully unlikely it ever was.

Conclusion

The M.O.A.K Law of Love stands as a symbolic framework, not a deterministic prediction. It is a reminder that behind every "how did we meet?" is a universe of mathematical miracles. Whether found across oceans or on neighboring streets, love remains humanity’s most graceful anomaly.

2.1 Expanded Equation and Statistical Context

Without filtering by readiness, opportunity, or alignment, the Random Probability of Finding a Compatible Partner is approximately: 0.00000012%

(Assuming 1 ideal match per 8 million people.)

Thus, the Expanded M.O.A.K Formula becomes:

P (True Love) =N×A×C×E×R×T

Where:

• N = World population

• A = Initial attraction probability

• C = Compatibility probability

• E = Emotional availability

• R = Reciprocity probability

• T = Probability of encountering

  
  

Example Calculation:

Imagine you are a city dweller:

• N=8,100,000,000

• A=0.05A

• C=0.03C

• E=0.35E

• R=0.25R

• T=0.000008T

Then:

P=8,100,000,000×0.05×0.03×0.35×0.25×0.000008

P≈8.5P

Meaning, there are about 8.5 people on Earth right now with whom you could potentially find true love under the M.O.A.K Law!

Where:

P = Filtered population pool (geography, interests, values).

2.2 Power Of Love

In this section, we demonstrate the power and precision of the M.O.A.K Law of Love through a simulated application of its core variables:

Attraction (A) = 0.055

Compatibility (C) = 0.02

Emotional Availability (E) = 0.35

Reciprocity (R) = 0.25

Encounter Probability (T) = 0.0006

World Population (N) = 8.1 billion

When these values are applied to the M.O.A.K equation:

We arrive at a globalized probability of love:

This infinitesimally small number highlights one of the great truths of the theorem:

Love is astronomically rare by accident, but profoundly possible through alignment, intention, and divine design.

Higher emotional availability = Higher number of compatible love connections.

3.0 Overview

While the M.O.A.K Law of Love is rooted in scientific modeling and behavioral data, love remains a spiritual and mystical journey for many. This section introduces a hybrid dimension to the theorem—celestial timing and spiritual energy—anchored in astrology, numerology, and divine alignment.

Just as probabilities can be measured, certain seasons of the soul amplify the frequency of attraction, emotional opening, and reciprocity. Astrology does not override science—it illuminates unseen currents.

3.1 THE M.O.A.K + HOROSCOPE CELESTIAL LOVE FORMULA

What Is a Horoscope?

A horoscope is a celestial map based on the exact date, time, and location of a person’s birth.

It is used in astrology to interpret:

Natural strengths

Relationship compatibility

Emotional and spiritual patterns

Major life events

Divine timing windows

Each person’s chart includes:

Sun sign (core identity)

Moon sign (emotional instincts)

Rising sign (life approach and perception)

Venus sign (love, attraction)

Planetary transits (how current celestial movements affect your path)

Astrologers use horoscopes to suggest when someone may meet a life partner, who they might align with best, and why certain seasons repeat.

3.2 Why Horoscope Matters in the M.O.A.K Framework

The original M.O.A.K formula measures human readiness, effort, alignment, and healing.

But it does not account for divine timing — the “when” that is written in the stars.

Horoscope adds that layer.

It is the bridge between free will and divine appointment.

In M.O.A.K, we introduce:

C= Cosmic Favorability

A multiplier that represents the strength of astrological alignment

between a person’s chart and their season of love.

3.3 The Full Formula (M.O.A.K + Horoscope)

Where:

3.4 How C (Cosmic Favorability) Is Measured

C can be estimated from:

• Astrological transits: Venus Return, Jupiter in 7th House

• Birth chart resonance with partner

  
  

• Timing portals: Eclipse cycles, retrogrades, new moons

  
  

• Numerological alignments (e.g. life path numbers in sync)

  
  

C ranges typically from 0.8 (resistant timing) to 1.2 (high alignment).

It multiplies the probability of success without replacing the need for M, O, or A.

Here is your Horoscope Simulation Preview Chart, showing how different levels of Cosmic Favorability (C) impact the probability of marriage:

As C increases from 0.8 to 1.2, the probability of marriage rises steeply, illustrating how divine timing boosts M.O.A.K outcomes.

We now extend the original theorem with a divine modifier:

Where:

S = Spiritual Alignment Coefficient (range: 1–3)

  1 = Neutral; 2 = Synchronized Sign; 3 = Divine Timing Encounter

3.5 Conclusion: The Celestial Compass

Astrology does not dictate destiny—but it whispers to the wise.

Spiritual resonance is not superstition—it is a sacred signal from the divine, guiding lovers toward alignment, purpose, and true partnership.

Thus, the M.O.A.K Law of Love is not just a formula.

It is a soul map, time-activated, heart-led, and star-aligned.

The more one heals, matures, and embraces authenticity, the higher M rises.

Self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and inner peace raise the magnetic field for love.

Section 4: Data and Statistics 

The foundational statistical framework of the M.O.A.K Law of Love by quantifying the core variables that influence the probability of romantic union across a global population of over 8.1 billion individuals.

Each component—Attraction (A), Compatibility (C), Emotional Availability (E), Reciprocity (R), and Probability of Encounter (T)—is analyzed through simulation models rooted in behavioral science, emotional psychology, and sociological data. The probabilities associated with each stage of connection reveal just how rare, yet mathematically traceable, true love can be.

While individual variable probabilities may seem low in isolation, their compounded interaction—filtered through population size (N)—forms the basis of the M.O.A.K Theorem. These calculations prove that love is not merely a mystical concept, but a statistical phenomenon measurable by intention, exposure, and emotional resonance.

In sum, Section 4 reveals that love is both sacred and scientific, hidden not in luck, but in patterns waiting to be activated.

4.1 World Population (N)

As of 2025, the estimated world population is approximately 8.1 billion individuals, according to the United Nations Department of Economic and Social Affairs (UN DESA). This serves as the baseline value (N) in the M.O.A.K Law.

4.2 Probability of Initial Attraction (A)

Surveys in social psychology suggest that the likelihood of feeling initial attraction toward another random person is approximately 5%. This value can vary with factors such as proximity, culture, physical preferences, etc.

4.3 Compatibility Probability (C)

Compatibility — psychological, intellectual, and emotional — is rarer than attraction. Studies show that deep compatibility might occur in only 3% of new encounters.

4.4 Emotional Availability (E)

According to psychological studies (e.g., attachment theory research), roughly 30–40% of the adult population is emotionally "available" at any given time.

We use an estimated average of 35% (E = 0.35).

4.5 Reciprocity (R)

Even when attraction and compatibility occur, the feeling must be mutual.

Psychological models of reciprocity suggest that mutual attraction/compatibility happens about 25% of the time when one side is interested.

Thus, R ≈ 0.25.

4.6 Probability of Encounter (T)

The chance of actually meeting a compatible partner varies wildly.

• Urban environments: Higher encounter rates (social density)

  
  

• Rural environments: Lower encounter rates

  
  

Example Estimates:

5.0 Digital Love — Probability of Online Encounter

In The digital age, romantic possibilities now extend beyond physical proximity into the ever-expanding realm of online interaction. Section 5 examines the probabilistic impact of digital behaviors—likes, comments, direct messages, and dating app matches—on the journey to serious romantic connection.

Through simulation modeling based on the M.O.A.K Law of Love, we observe that even modest posting behaviors (e.g., 50–100 posts per year) can yield measurable outcomes: likes to translate into micro-probabilities of connection, comments offer deeper engagement, and direct messages become potent catalysts for meaningful conversations. When compounded, these interactions generate statistically predictable love outcomes over time.

Although digital courtship alone may yield infrequent meetings (e.g., one real love connection per 5–10 years), when paired with intentional strategy, compatibility alignment, and emotional readiness, online engagement becomes a powerful tool within the larger M.O.A.K framework.

Thus, the digital world—though crowded and chaotic—offers structured probabilities for finding love, when approached with the right rhythm, realism, and relationship purpose

Factors to model:

Likes (simple attraction indicator)

Comments (slightly deeper engagement)

Shares/Reposts (signal amplification — network expansion)

Direct Messaging (DMs) (true intent signal)

Dating App Matches (explicit romantic interest)

5.1 Posting Scenario Impact on Finding Love Online

Assumptions for Simulation:

• Each Post generates:

  • ~50 views

  • ~5 likes

  • ~0.5 comments (every 2 posts gets 1 comment)

  • ~0.1 direct messages (every 10 posts gets 1 DM)

    
    

    Posting 50 times per year (roughly once per week)

    
    

    

    
    
    
    

    Based on M.O.A.K Digital Probabilities:

    
    

• Like → 0.5% chance of serious conversation

• Comment → 2% chance of serious conversation

• Direct Message → 7% chance of serious conversation

  
  

Example Calculation:

Posting 50 times a year =

• 250 likes

• 25 comments

• 5 DMs

  
  

Expected serious conversations:

• From likes: 250×0.005=1.25250

• From comments: 25×0.02=0.525

• From DMs: 5×0.07=0.355

  
  

Total serious conversations per year ≈ 2.1 conversations

And if 5% of serious conversations turn into meetings:

• 2.1×0.05=0.1052.1 \times 0.05 = 0.1052.1×0.05=0.105 meetings per year

  
  

  

  
  
  
  

Thus:

Posting once a week yields about one real love meeting every 10 years. (but combined with other methods, can dramatically boost chances!)

5.2 Pathway Comparison: Digital-Only Dating vs. M.O.A.K 365 Courtship

Overview:

This chart visually represents the dramatic difference in love outcomes when comparing two approaches:

1. Digital-Only Dating – relying solely on apps, likes, DMs, and spontaneous attraction

2. M.O.A.K-Enhanced Path – structured courtship using the M.O.A.K 365 Relationship Books (Kings & Queens set), intentional compatibility building, and spiritual alignment

Expected Annual Outcomes

Interpretation

• Conversations:

Digital engagement alone may start a few conversations, but the M.O.A.K system triples the rate by aligning attraction, compatibility, and emotional readiness.

• Meetings:

Only ~0.33 in-person meetings occur per year with digital methods, often random and unqualified.

The M.O.A.K path yields nearly 1 real-life meeting per year, rooted in purpose and mutual growth.

• Relationships:

Digital-only dating results in roughly 1 real relationship every 30 years.

With M.O.A.K, this improves to 1 real relationship every 10 years, and potentially sooner with spiritual alignment.

Conclusion:

The data confirms that reading and applying the M.O.A.K 365 Relationship Books leads to exponentially better romantic outcomes than digital dating alone.

While dating apps offer convenience, they lack the structure, values, and spiritual insight that M.O.A.K provides. The books guide readers through emotional mastery, intentional courtship, and divine alignment—transforming love from chance into choice.

5.3 M.O.A.K MARRAIGE PROBABILITY

The M.O.A.K + Horoscope Unified Formula calculates the probability of marriage by evaluating the interaction between personal effort, cosmic timing, and psychological readiness.

It does so using five core variables: Readiness (M), Opportunity (O), Alignment (A), Cosmic Favorability (C), and Karmic Resistance (K). These are expressed in the following equation:

Marriage Probability = (M × O × A × C) / K) × 100

This formula combines mathematical clarity with spiritual nuance. It acknowledges that love is both personal and providential, and that successful long-term union depends not only on effort and opportunity, but also on timing, healing, and divine synchronicity. The following four subsections explore the effects of each variable on the overall probability of marriage.

5.3.1 Readiness (M): Internal Emotional Preparedness

Readiness is the inner calibration of the heart and mind. It measures how emotionally open, self-aware, and mentally prepared a person is for a committed relationship. A low M-value (closer to 0.0) suggests fear, emotional avoidance, or unresolved trauma. A high M-value (closer to 1.0) suggests self-mastery, open-heartedness, and readiness to give and receive love. Simulation analysis shows that increasing Readiness from 0.5 to 1.0 can more than double the probability of marriage, assuming all other variables are constant. The growth curve is exponential because readiness multiplies the impact of all other variables.

[See Chart: 5.3.1 – Marriage Probability vs Readiness (M)]

5.3.2 Alignment (A): Relational Compatibility

Alignment reflects the degree of compatibility between two individuals across emotional, spiritual, physical, and lifestyle dimensions. An A-value of 0.5 implies surface-level attraction or fragmented harmony, whereas a value near 1.0 suggests a deep and holistic match. The simulation data confirms that alignment has a direct, linear impact on probability: as compatibility increases, so does the likelihood of sustaining long-term love. In practice, alignment is measured through shared goals, communication style, conflict resolution, and spiritual values.

[See Chart: 5.3.2 – Marriage Probability vs Alignment (A)]

5.3.3 Karmic Resistance (K): Emotional Weight and Ancestral Burden

Karmic Resistance is the only variable that appears in the denominator of the formula. It reflects internal blockages — past relationship trauma, generational patterns, or spiritual burdens that make love more difficult to receive or maintain. A low K-value (near 1.0) means the individual is relatively free of these hindrances. A high K-value (above 1.5) shows that healing is needed. The chart reveals an inverse relationship: as karmic resistance increases, marriage probability declines even when all other factors remain optimal. This makes K the great limiter — a hidden wall even in the presence of love.

[5.3.4 Cosmic Favorability (C): Astrological and Divine Timing. See Chart: 5.3.3 – Marriage Probability

5.3.4 Cosmic Favorability (C): Astrological and Divine Timing

Cosmic Favorability represents the unseen alignment of stars, planetary movement, and universal timing windows. Unlike the previous variables, C introduces the influence of external fate into the equation. It generally ranges from 0.8 (cosmic headwinds) to 1.2 (cosmic tailwinds). During certain transits — such as Venus Return, Jupiter in the 7th House, or numerological portals — the C value may be elevated, giving otherwise average dynamics a burst of divine momentum. Simulation reveals that a higher C value amplifies the effects of M, O, and A without changing their nature. It is not a substitute for effort, but a cosmic multiplier of it.

[See Chart: 5.3.4 – Marriage Probability vs Cosmic Favorability (C)]

Conclusion

The M.O.A.K Love Formula provides a quantitative framework to explore what has historically been treated as mystical or random. Through the combination of effort, opportunity, cosmic flow, and emotional clarity, we can not only estimate but influence the probability of lasting love. This formula is not rigid fate — it is structured freedom. A map through the unseen, governed by mathematics and meaning.

"Love is the science of miracles,

Born when preparation kisses chance,

Nurtured when courage dances with truth,

And found where destiny bows to the heart that dared to believe."

Keywords: Love, Probability, Affectional Kinship, Compatibility, Emotional Availability, Romantic Mathematics, Poetic Science, M.O.A.K LAW OF LOVE